Kids Need Balance
(Luke 2:52; Mark 12:30-31)

The Situation: The adage, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is true! Similarly, "All play and no work makes Jill a lazy girl." Some children receive an overdose of sports, TV, school, video games, or even church. Few kids experience the energizing vitality that takes place when their minds, hearts, and bodies are stretched to reach their full potential.

The Solution: Achieving balance is the key to a child's overall development. Even as a child, Jesus kept things in balance. One simple Bible verse summarizes His childhood: He grew intellectually, physically, spiritually, and socially (Luke 2:52). Balanced discipleship links three dimensions—growth in knowledge, in character, and in conduct. Children must embrace all three.

What You Can Do: These three pursuits will help you build balanced, lifelong disciples of Jesus Christ: 1) Know God intimately—help your child develop a reservoir of Bible knowledge. 2) Love God passionately—practice displaying Christlike character in every area of life. 3) Serve God selflessly—demonstrate faithful conduct that honors God and helps people.
 
 

Kids Need the Bible
(Joshua 1:8; 2 Timothy 3:16-17)

The Situation: Children ask, "What's so special about the Bible?" Billions of beautiful and interesting books are printed every year. Some children treat God's Word like any other book, missing out on its guidance and power.

The Solution: The Bible stands alone, the only Book from God—His inspired, relevant, and life-changing message. God has preserved His Word through the centuries so that it might continue to speak to us today and transform us tomorrow. Cultivate a deep appreciation for the richness and power of Scripture so the Bible will become your child's trusted companion.
What You Can Do: Make it your personal goal to read, appreciate, and apply God's Word more than you ever have before. As you fall in love with the Scriptures, you'll model the behavior that your child needs to see. Encourage him or her to follow your example.
 
What You Can Do: Make it your personal goal to read, appreciate, and apply God's Word more than you ever have before. As you fall in love with the Scriptures, you'll model the behavior that your child needs to see. Encourage him or her to follow your example.

Kids Need Encouragement
(Ephesians 4:29-32; 1 Thessalonians 5:11)

The Situation: Kids hear, “You’ll never amount to anything!” Many children are exposed to an onslaught of criticism, sarcasm, and derogatory comments. These words tear down a child’s confidence, competence, and self-esteem. As a result, kids have growing problems of insecurity and fear. They believe the messages that they hear!

The Solution: Just as a battery continually needs to be recharged, your child requires a constant supply of encouragement. To counterbalance negative messages, kids need large doses of support, affirmation, and praise. Look for ways to build your child up. Be his or her biggest cheerleader. Let your kids know that you believe in them—no matter what!

What You Can Do: Negative messages come from a variety of sources. Reduce or eliminate the number of times your child is exposed to hurtful words or detrimental conduct. Surround him or her with sources that will provide positive input. The changes in your child’s outlook and performance might amaze you!
 
 

Kids Need Character
(Matthew 12:33; Luke 6:45)

The Situation: Some people challenge established Christian virtues. They ask, "Why value a righteous lifestyle?" Many children grow up without the benefit of role models who exhibit positive character traits. Qualities such as honesty, diligence, and respect are in short supply. Homes and schools do not necessarily reinforce these basic values.

The Solution: "Character" describes who we really are, the person we choose to be. Jesus modeled character traits all Christians can develop. We build character through thousands of choices, one decision at a time. Outside, everyone can see our attitudes and actions (our reputation). Inside, only God knows about our hidden thoughts and dreams.

What You Can Do: Download a simple chart with eleven character traits that your child can embrace. When he or she reflects one of these characteristics, draw a "happy face" beside it. When your child "misses the mark," sit down together and talk about it privately.